The North Bend Eagle

 

Family remembers Meadows's big heart

by Jason Futch
Published 11/4/26

The sentencing of Bryan Jeselink for second degree murder brought a painful chapter in the lives of Billie Meadows’ family to a close, but her mother, Amber Meadows, said she will never stop telling her daughter’s story.


Billie Meadows smiles during happier times, when her cousin threw her a SpongeBob Squarepants themed birthday party to celebrate her 23rd birthday.

“I talk about Billie every day, and I will until my last breath,” Amber said. “She was not my daughter. She is my daughter, and I will forever tell her story.”

The Dodge County Attorney’s Office allowed the Eagle to speak with family members in a private setting at the Dodge County Courthouse following Jeselink’s sentencing on Oct. 22. Away from the courtroom, they reflected on Billie’s life and the memories they continue to cherish.

Family members remembered Billie as a child at heart who loved the ocean, swimming, coloring, carving pumpkins, building gingerbread houses and watching SpongeBob SquarePants. Though shy and quiet, they said she had a way of making everyone around her feel loved and welcome.

“She was life,” Michelle Grant, a relative, said. “She was the type of person who was still hunting Easter eggs in my front yard.”

Billie was born in Canton, Georgia, on Dec. 18, 2000, to Amber and Albert “Al” Meadows. Amber was 18 when she gave birth to Billie and said the two grew up together. Their bond was so close that people often mistook them for sisters.

Their relationship extended into the workplace, where the two worked together at Plant Bowen in Cartersville, Georgia. Amber said Billie was proud to work alongside her mother and even wore a shirt that read, “Yes, I know I look like my mom,” as a tribute to their close relationship.

Grant recalled Billie’s first job at Bojangles when she was 15. She said Billie had a knack for remembering customers and would sometimes give them free biscuits on their birthdays. She also occasionally provided free meals to people who were struggling and would dress up in costumes.

“She had such a big heart,” Grant said.

Billie’s warmth and compassion were also reflected in a victim impact statement delivered in court by her cousin, Brooklyn Summerville.

“She was the person you simply wanted to be near because of her warmth,” Summerville said. “Billie saw the best in people and everyone.”

Summerville also recalled Billie’s trusting nature and her desire to be loved in the same way she loved others.

Family members believe Jeselink took advantage of that trust. The two met in 2024 while he was working as a welder at Plant Bowen. As their relationship developed, Jeselink gained the trust of Billie’s relatives, who welcomed him into the family.

Over time, however, family members noticed what they described as attempts to distance Billie from them. During the summer of 2024, the couple stayed with members of Jeselink’s family in Texas before eventually moving to Nebraska.
Amber said the move from Georgia was sudden, with the couple leaving in early April. Before departing, Billie told her mother she planned to return to Georgia to celebrate her niece’s second birthday. She did not make it back for the birthday and that conversation was the last time Amber saw her daughter alive.

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